Helpful tips for dating a ladyboy

Imagine you have a ladyboy friend, what are the things you have to remember dating her? I hope these 10 tips will help you understand your date better. Although this article is not mine (it was borrowed from a ladyboy blog), i’m happy to publish it here and i hope it will really be helpful to you.

For you guys who haven’t dated or been in the company of a transwoman (ladyboy, shemale..etc.) here a a few tips. This is for actual dates where you meet for dinner or drinks or coffee and money is not exchanged for the company.

1) DO: Use correct pronouns. SHE is not a “He” no matter what the doctors said at birth.

2) DON’T: Tell her she looks like a woman. Compliment her on how she looks (if you feel like it), but for goodness sake don’t act surprised. That tells her you expected a “man in a dress”.

3) DO: Be punctual, or communicate if you wil be running late. It’s polite and lots of TGs get stood up. Being really late with no explanation or warning tells anyone that they aren’t really important.

4) DON’T: Ask her what her “Real” name or “boy” name is. This probably brings up an unpleasant time in her life and it is often used by people to keep us in our place as “not really women” or “failed men”.

5) DON’T ask to see a picture of when she looked like a guy. Same as above but way way more. If you ever do see a picture of her from this time, understand that she is showing you herself when she was probably feeling her worst.

6) DO: Try to impress her. You don’t have to treat her like a princess, but you should use your best dating manners (ask what she likes to do, pay attention to her, smile alot).

7) DON’T: Treat her like your buddy. It’s like above, but more. Don’t leave her alone while you chat up another girl. She won’t take that as well as your guy friends would. Walk her to her door, even if you aren’t getting sex.

DO: Understand that she is an individual and has her own likes and dislikes. It will help your cause if you don’t assume too much about her.

9) DON’T: Ask about her genitalia or transgender history in public, or at least do it quietly. Most of us try to live unobserved in our daily lives. Broadcasting that your date has or had a penis is simply not safe for either of you.

10) DO: Have fun! Take her to a place you are both comfortable, get to know eachother, laugh and makes jokes, be relaxed and be prepared to have a great night with a woman who will notice and appreciate every little kindness and polite gesture you make.

Want to become a ladyboy?

So, do you want to become a ladyboy? Here’s one interesting piece of information that pretty much sums up my thoughts about this point.

It’s a very bold decision to do what you want to do, and some never do it, but if it will make you happy then more power to you.

I would suggest you grow your hair to a length that is less masculine (if you have not already done so) before beginning your transition. The easiest way to start your transition is to start taking hormone tablets. There are 2 ways of doing this. 1st way is the longest but will see the best result – go to a psychiatrist and tell them you are suffering from GID (Gender Identity Disorder). The shrink will then ask you a bunch of questions and it will probably take a few sessions, then if he feels you really do have a gender issue, he will prescribe you with Estrogen pills and give you a set prescription of how many to take per day etc. The 2nd way is alot cheaper and faster, but may not give you as good as results as the Estrogen tablets. Simply get your mum, sister, or any other female you know to go to a chemist and buy you Contraceptive Pills (“The Pill” if you like). Not sure on what dosage to take but this is the way all of the Filipino ladyboys do it and most of them look like beautiful living dolls, though that is also their heritage.

After you start developing (nipples start to get more sensitive, boobs start to grow in, voice starts to change etc) then the next step would be to buy women’s clothing if you didn’t already have it, because if you are going to live full time as a girl you gotta dress the part . Just ease into wearing women’s clothes all the time at first, because, let’s face it, in the early stages of your transition you will look like a guy in drag.

Good luck on your transition

Are working tgirls bad?

Lets be realistic, many of the tgirls are more or less involved in sex industry, be it prostitution, escorting, making sex videos, setting up web sites, web cams or a bit of everything to make money. Here’s what my friend, Mandy, who is a TS model, wrote about it at another forum.

Its all part of the sex industry, its all exploitation, they are exploiting us and we are exploiting them, anyway everybody exploits everybody else in some way so whats the difference. Its not as bad as you make it out to be. I think the laws around prostitution in this country are outrageous, and a flagrant violation of separation of church and state.

I specialize in sex, and the experience you have with me will probably be safer, cleaner (as a performer I get tested much more than a girl you would pick up at a bar, and I’m a firm believer in safe sex), and more directly what you are looking for than what you would find with a civilian.

Unless you live in Cuba, or forage for edible nuts, berries, and plants in the woods, you sell yourself for money. Its called capitalism.

If I wasn’t a sex worker, that would mean alot less smiles in this world. There is nothing pathetic about compensating me for all the hard work that goes into my time with you. But by all means, have fun prowling the tranny bars, at least you don’t have to pay for it.

In general a working tgirl is much more aware the risks posed to her health by having multiple partners, than the average girl you pick up at a bar, TS or not. Our health is also our bread and butter, so we take good care of it.

Be yourself

What i wanted to discuss today is men’s fear. I was reading this ladyboy related forum and it got me thinking that it actually takes some courage for men to go out and start looking for a ladyboy. I think it would be the best to quote the original post

BE YOURSELF ! DON’T FEAR THE HAPPYNESS ! YOU CAN FULLFIL A DREAM ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE IN IT !

If you have the feeling that a ladyboy can make you happy, you must look for a ladyboy… it’s possible that your feeling is wrong, but it’s probably that it is right… anyway you have only to try. Men lose their lives running after women, and ignoring their deepest desires. When they find the courage to admit that their interest in shemales is much more than an hobby, their lives will change radically.

Ladyboys know perfectly the male sexuality and guess with incredible speedness your desires and my fantasies … what a difference with women ! Moreover they were sweet, sexy and incredibly hot. In a t-girl you can find sweetness, tenderness, passion, empathy,complicity,friendship and all the things that you may never found in women.

Believe in your dreams! Don’t be afraid ! Sex and Love are the best thing in the life… You can’t waste your life masturbating with pics and videos … Ladyboys are fabulous lovers, and many shemales are looking for love so as you are …

By the way. I am a little worried noone is leaving comments on my posts anymore, why is that?

Going to move to Philippines?

If you are excited by ladyboys and looking for a place to move to, I recommend you considering the decision of choosing Philippines.

It isn’t just a place you can hang out with a lot of ladyboys but also a place where you can see a lot of beautiful creation of natures. Lovely places, Boracay for example white sand beaches very pure, and other places where you can find peace and relaxation if you are into nature. If you wanna have some fun and wanna go dancing The Fort is a good place very nice place, Malate, or if you wanna see ladyboys who dance in the stage you can go to the Amazing Philippine Theater, they just dont showcase beauty but also talents.

Well still last decisions for a good place to stay is still yours, pick your choice. And have fun!!!

A Big Ladyboy Thank You

I have received many comments for You guys. I would like to thank you for giving me a chance to be a part of this big community. It was really a lot of fun being part of this, specially meeting and talking to all the guys who visited this site. I believe there are many people who love us and can accept ladyboys as they are, and I will keep my work, not just giving pleasure and ideas to those curious guys but also helping other trannies to be known and be respected in the world.

Love and kisses

So many people love ladyboys!

Hello guys, I’m glad there are so many of you who like us ladyboys!

I was a little worried that the guys who say they love asian shemales like me are gay, but in fact most of them are straight. Don’t believe me? I have found a big poll where more than 2 thousand people who love ladyboys were asked what their sexual orientation was.

Over 81% of the voters said they are straight! So don’t be afraid to love us ladyboys! We feel ourselves women and so do many guys who love us!

I wish You to find a ladyboy of your dream!